Ian William MUIR

Ian William MUIR

aka  Muiry

( late of Ashtonfield )

New South Wales Police Force

Redfern Police Academy Class # 165

Regd. # 18853

 

Rank: Commenced Training at Redfern Police Academy on Monday 24 September 1979 ( Aged 23 years, 8 months, 8 days )

Probationary Constable – appointed 10 December 1979 ( aged 23 years, 10 months, 24 days )

Constable – appointed ?

Constable 1st Class – appointed 10 December 1984

Senior Constable – appointed 10 December 1988

Sergeant 3rd Class – appointed ?

Sergeant 2nd Class – appointed

 

Final Rank:  Sergeant

 

Stations:  Phillip Street Stn ( 1979 ),

Most of his service was in the Lower Hunter LAC,

Paterson Police Station – OIC – 1980’s, Maitland,

Toronto Police Stn – ( Lake Macquarie LAC ) – Death

 

ServiceFrom 24 September 1979   to   28 June 2007 = 27 years, 9 months, 4 days Service

 

Awards:  Commissioners Commendation x 3

National Medal – granted 8 November 1995

 

Born:  Monday 16 January 1956

Died:  Thursday 28 June 2007

Age:  51 years, 5 months, 12 days

Cause:  Suicide as the result of PTSD & Bipolar Disorder – Hanging at home – Bolwarra Hts

 

Funeral date:  3 July 2007 @ 11am.

Funeral location: St. Joseph`s Catholic Church, King Street East Maitland.

 

Buried at:  Cremated

 

Ian William MUIR, Ian MUIR, Muiry

 

Memorial: NSW Police force Service Memorial Wall, Sydney Police Centre, Surry Hills, F35 ( left wall )

 

Ian is NOT mentioned on the National Police Wall of Remembrance

This member is NOT mentioned on the RetiredPolice.com.au Vale list


 

Ian was 51 years old when he died. He had been married for over 28 years and had three children, an adult son & daughter and a 14 year-old daughter. He had been a police officer his entire married life. He was a serving officer at the time of his death, but was on sick leave receiving treatment.

He was highly respected by his colleagues for his intelligence, dedication and ability. He had matriculated in the top five per cent of the State and had undertaken a degree in Behavioural Science ( Hons ) at the University of NSW, majoring in Psychology and Biology.

As a young man he was a keen sportsman. Later he took up renovating houses as a hobby and outlet.

During his career, he had received Commissioner’s commendations three times and had, from time to time, acted as a Duty Officer with acting rank of Inspector.

It seems that he had a particular gift for leadership of younger police officers. Not only was he good at building teams and maintaining morale but his gift for empathising with other police officers was recognised in his appointment as a Peer Support Officer.

A the time of his death Sgt Muir was stationed at Toronto Police Station in Lake Macquarie LAC.

He spent most of his service in the Lower Hunter LAC including being the officer in charge of Paterson Police Station which was a one man station.

He had been in ” the job ” for over 25 years.

We wish Ian can forever Rest In Peace.

 


 

IAN WILLIAM MUIR
Aged 51 Years
Of Ashtonfield

Much loved husband of LISA, loving father of LACHLAN, AMY and HANNAH, brother of GRAHAM, KERRY, GREG, KIM, ROBYNE and NARELLE.
Family and Friends are respectfully invited to attend the Service in Celebration of IAN`s Life to be held at St. Joseph`s Catholic Church, King Street East Maitland on TUESDAY 3rd July 2007 at 11am. A Private Cremation will follow.

http://www.onlinememorials.com.au/detail.asp?Ref=5629


 

From NSW Fallen Police FB Group

Posted 30 June 2016

Dave Wilkinson with Deb Bryant and 33 others at Quilpie Pub.

9 years ago today a great mentor to me succumbed to the traumas inflicted on him by being a member of the NSW Police force.

He had been struggling for some time, I guess in reality everyone in that line of work did everyday. I know I did – you never knew what was about to happen.

Ian was a very wise man & always looked out for his troops. Never afraid to jump in & get his hands dirty.

He was not one for upper management bullshit & I gave him shit all the time when he was doing acting duty officer. He was happy in his Sgt’s spot.

His demons haunting him, he opted for some time off; not being well. However in true caring management style of the Injury Management Team the pressure started.

At the time Ian was spending his days off ( like I was ) prior to going off work building a new house. This was his relaxing time, his solace, a place to create without the pressures of “the job” that is law enforcement.
In the years prior, he had also been renovating other properties it’s what he enjoyed doing, some hard physical work. I get it, it helps with the stress of the job.

So management decide that basically he was only having time off to build a house. Assuming that a man of his years in the job had no other reason to have time off.

He got visited at home by the boss as the story goes. This happens under the guise of a welfare check. It’s rarely this, regardless after one if these visits & being pressured to get back to work the ultimate decision was made.

His demons got him & the darkness descended upon him. He ‘suicided’ by hanging.

The unbearable pain and the inability to think clearly is so so familiar to me. The lack of help & support from an organisation that one loved so much is soul destroying.

Ian loved being a police officer & he loved the work & his troops. I can’t speak for his state of mind in his final moments but I know how I was when I made the decision to save myself & give up what I loved doing.

Wish I had got up more to share a beer when you had your time off. So sad that you was left to end things the way you did. I will never forgive the organisation that we both loved for the indignant way you & others got treated. 9 years on & it’s still happening they have not learnt a thing.

Thank you for your time, your sincerity, your straight up approach & looking out for me.
Never forgotten
RIP

Be having a schooner this afternoon for you, if we can get one of these Outback Qld Pubs with one, it may have to be a pot so hope you don’t mind. Very grateful to have known you.


 

 

 




Scott Allan GRAY

Scott Allan GRAY

( late of Wangi – formerly of West Wallsend, NSW )

 

New South Wales Police Force

Goulburn Police Academy Class 263 

 

Regd. # 30399

 

Rank: Commenced Training at Goulburn Police Academy on Sunday 20 August 1995 ( aged 24 years, 9 months, 18 days )

Probationary Constable – appointed 16 February 1996 ( aged 25 years, 3 months, 14 days )

Constable – appointed ? ? ?

Senior Constable – appointed ? ? ?

Leading Senior Constable – appointed ? ? ?

 

Final Rank:  Leading Senior Constable

 

Stations:  Burwood ( 9 Division ), Gosford ( 30 Division ), Lake Macquarie, Toronto

 

Awards:  NSW Police Medal for Diligent & Ethical Service – granted on 13 February 2007

 

Service ( from Training date )From  20 August 1995   to   6 September 2007 = 12 years, 0 months, 17 days Service

 

Born:  Monday  2 November 1970

Died:  Thursday  6 September 2007

Age:  36 years, 10 months, 4 days

Cause of Death:  PTSD leading to suicide – hanging

 

Funeral date:  Wednesday 12 September 2007

Funeral location:  Lake Macquarie Memorial Park, Ryhope, NSW

 

Cremated:  with his ashes laid to rest on Mount Sugar Loaf, Newcastle, NSW

 

Memorial: NSW Police force Service Memorial Wall, Sydney Police Centre, Surry Hills, D8 ( Right wall )

Scott is NOT mentioned on the Police Wall of Remembrance

Scott Allan GRAY
Scott Allan GRAY

Scott GRAY and his two children. Taken in July 2007 a couple of months before he died.
Scott GRAY and his two children. Taken in July 2007 a couple of months before he died.

 

Funeral pamphlet

FURTHER INFORMATION IS REQUIRED RE THIS MEMBER.


Funeral details were first published in the Newcastle Herald on 10 September 2007


 

NSW Fallen Police facebook page:

Hey Scottie

Thinking about you today mate can’t believe it’s been 7 years since the unbearable became too much. Always wish some miracle intervention had happened but alas, it did not & your decision to leave was made.

Mate so many fun shifts together over the years along with the bad ones & the complete shit fights. You always had my back at a job. Somehow we always managed a laugh irrespective of how bad the job was. Seeing you off was a tough day.

Always remembered Senior Constable
You take care now
I’m sure our paths will cross again one day.

Cheers to you!

  • Peter Gould A fine epitaph for a fallen brother. RIP Scott Gray. Well done Dave Wilkinson.
    Like · Reply · 4 · Yesterday at 2:18pm
  • Dave Wilkinson Thanks Peter
    Like · Reply · 2 · Yesterday at 2:27pm
  • Clare Heiss This is just beautiful to see you honour Scott with these words. As the sister of a police officer who also took his life on duty, I can imagine the family would feel so comforted to see this post also. RIP Scott, you are in good company xx
    Like · Reply · 5 · Yesterday at 2:33pm
  • Janet Hill RIP Scot!
    Like · Reply · 2 · Yesterday at 2:33pm
  • Junelle Doherty What wonderful words.
    Well said.
    Amen !
    Like · Reply · 2 · Yesterday at 2:34pm
  • Dave Wilkinson Thank you Clare for saying so just find it hard that it really still is a taboo topic. Especially when you here management talk it up for the media but in reality they don’t give a damn
    Like · Reply · 5 · Yesterday at 2:36pm
  • Clare Heiss Exactly Dave, that’s why our family and others will continue to speak out for those that cannot – until they are honoured as they should be on the Wall, and so the Police Force acknowledge their deaths as well as their lives. #onewallforall
    Like · Reply · 2 · Yesterday at 2:40pm
    Mac McGillicuddy Beautiful words Dave Wilkinson.
    Vale S/Con Scott Gray.
    Like · Reply · 1 · Yesterday at 2:40pm
  • Michelle Madirazza RIP Scott Gray!
    Like · Reply · 1 · Yesterday at 3:11pm
  • Keith Brennan RIP brother
    Like · Reply · 1 · Yesterday at 3:31pm · Edited
  • Kimberley Galvin A beautiful post and so lovely to see that Scott is close at heart even though some years have passed. As a Police widow to suicide this shows me love and comfort. What a great mate you are.x
    Like · Reply · 4 · Yesterday at 4:01pm
  • Dave Wilkinson Thank you for your kind words Kimberley
    Like · Reply · 1 · Yesterday at 7:48pm
  • M-ark W-aspee Well said mate… RIP brother in blue…
    Like · Reply · 1 · Yesterday at 4:03pm
  • Frank Skinner Well done
    Like · Reply · 1 · Yesterday at 4:18pm
  • Sharon Johnson Nichols RIP Scott
    Like · Reply · 1 · Yesterday at 4:26pm
  • Paul Glock RIP.
    Like · Reply · 1 · Yesterday at 5:14pm
  • Mark Kitchener I never knew you Scott but I hope you Rest in Peace and thank you for your service.
    Like · Reply · 2 · Yesterday at 5:23pm
  • Andy Peverill well said brother I am sure no one will speak of me like that. Rest in Peace Scott
    Like · Reply · 3 · Yesterday at 5:35pm
  • Dave Wilkinson Your getting stronger everyday Andy & not going anywhere so nobody will need to speak about you wink emoticon
    Like · Reply · 3 · 13 hrs
  • Kel Nightingale Well said Dave. The ‘real’ Police family will always remember the other forgotten heroes. Rest in peace brother in blue
    Like · Reply · 3 · Yesterday at 7:44pm
  • Stuart Norris Rip Scott
    Like · Reply · 1 · 22 hrs
  • Val Turner R.I.P.
    Like · Reply · 1 · 15 hrs
  • Amanda Stevenson RIP Scott
    Like · Reply · 1 · 15 hrs
Karole Westmay you be resting in peace and the golden rays in heaven shine on you
Like · Reply · 1 · 6 hrs

Memorial Posted 25 November 2014
Memorial Updated 23 November 2024 with further dates.



Ryan David WEAVER

Ryan David WEAVER

AKA ?

Late of Coffs Harbour, NSW

NSW Goulburn Police Academy Class # 259

New South Wales Police Force

Regd. # 29664

Rank:  Commenced at Goulburn Police Academy on Monday 22 August 1994

Probationary Constable – Friday 17 February 1995

?

Final Rank?

Stations:  Ermington, Granville until 1999 then transferred to Coffs Harbour – GDs & OSG

Service:  From  22 August 1994 to 17 January 2000 = 5+ years Service

Awards: No Find on Australian Honours

Born:  Wednesday  24 April 1974

Died  Monday  17 January 2000

Age:  25 yrs  8 mths

Cause:  Illness – Suicide – Hanging

Event location:  Home

Event date:  Monday  17 January 2000

Funeral date?

Funeral location?

Wake location?

Funeral Parlour?

Buried at:  Dawson River Cemetery, ( off Lansdowne Rd Taree ), Cundletown, NSW

Grave location:  Portion: Flower Garden, Row 1, In the flower garden in the roundabout at the end of the road in (Dawson River Cemetery Road)

 

Ryan is NOT mentioned on the Police Wall of Remembrance

 

Ryan Weaver memorial stone, Taree Cemetery
Ryan Weaver memorial stone, Taree Cemetery

 

Ryan was due to commence day shift at Coffs Harbour Police Station on the 17 January 2000 but was late for his shift.

His house mate, another Policeman, was at Coffs Harbour waiting for Ryan to relieve him from his night shift.  His mate phoned Ryan to ask why he was late and Ryan told him that he was leaving now and would be at the station shortly.

When Ryan failed to turn up half hour after the conversation, his house mate went home to ascertain what the problem was, only to find Ryan had hung himself in the garage.

Ryan was 25 years of age.

May he forever Rest In Peace.

 


 




David James GUFF

David James GUFF

aka  ‘ Guffy ‘

NSW Goulburn Police Academy  Class # 229

New South Wales Police Force

ProCst # 98810

Regd. # 24260

Rank:  Commenced training at Goulburn Academy on 29 June 1987 ( aged 24 years, 8 months, 4 days )

Probationary Constable – appointed 18 September 1987 ( aged 24 years, 11 months, 13 days )

Constable – appointed ? ? ?

Senior Constable – appointed ? ? ?

 

Final Rank:  Senior Constable

Stations:  Petersham ( late 1980s ), Gladesville, Ryde, Zetland Police Rescue Squad, Pennant Hills GDs & Rescue Squad

Born: Friday  5 October 1962

Died:  Tuesday  17 August 2004

Cause: Illness – Suicide possibly due to departmental ‘ proceedings ‘

Age:  41 years, 10 months, 12 days

Funeral date:  25 August 2004

Buried in Vaughan Catholic Lawn Cemetery,

Grave location:  Row 1A, Grave 0084,

Freeman Ave, Macquarie Park, Nth Ryde.

 

David is NOT mentioned on the Police Wall of Remembrance

 

David James GUFF - 2nd from left. Pennant Hills Rescue Squad.
David James GUFF2nd from left. Pennant Hills Rescue Squad.

 

David James GUFF
Dave working in with Polair

David James GUFF
Dave ( on right ) working in with Polair ( unknown operator )

It is believed that David was subject of a departmental ‘ proceeding ‘ and that he may have been on long term sick report.

It is understood that he committed suicide by hanging himself inside the family garage.

 

Pennant Hills Police Rescue Squad - around 2000
Pennant Hills Police Rescue Squad – around 2000

 

 

David James GUFF
as seen on 7 September 2020

David James GUFF

David James GUFF

David James GUFF

 

 

 

 

May he forever Rest In Peace

Ellen Marshall - daughter of David.
Ellen Marshall – daughter of David.

Ellen Marshall - daughter of David.
Ellen Marshall – daughter of David.


 

Grave location ( Row 1A )

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Daniel GOODWIN

Daniel GOODWIN

Brother to Debbie GOODWIN # 287?? – Goulburn Class # 246

New South Wales Police Force

Goulburn Police Academy Class # 227

ProCst Regd. # 98399

Regd. #  23939

Rank:  Joined Goulburn Police Academy to start training – 1 April 1987

Probationary Constable – appointed 26 June 1987

Constable – appointed 26 June 1988

Constable 1st Class – appointed ? ? ?

Senior Constable – appointed ? ? ?

Final Rank: Senior Constable?

Stations?, Bowral

ServiceFrom 1 April 1987  to  ? ? ?

Terminated around 2005 = 18? years Service

Awards: No Find on Australian Honours although did receive a Bravery award for saving a man from flooded waters.

Born:  Tuesday  28 November 1961, Wollongong, NSW

Died on:  Wednesday  16 April 2014

CauseHe was diagnosed with PTSD in the early 2000s.

Suicide by hanging

Age:  52 years, 4 months, 19 days

Funeral date:   Monday  28 April 2014 @ 10.30am

Funeral locationThe Church of Christ, Wingecarribee Street, Bowral, NSW

Buried at:  Bowral Cemetery, Kangaloon Rd, Bowral, NSW ( unknown location )

Daniel GOODWIN - NSWPF - Suicide by hanging - 16 April 2014

DANIEL is NOT mentioned on the Police Wall of Remembrance  *NEED MORE INFO


 

GOODWIN, Daniel

Passed away 16th April, 2014

Beloved partner of Julie, Endearing father of Elise, Emily, Sophie (dec), Jack & Ben.

Will be sadly missed by all his family & friends.

Aged 52 Years

Family & friends of DANIEL are kindly invited to attend his Funeral Service to be held at The Church of Christ, Wingecarribee Street, Bowral (Opposite Police Station) on Monday (April 28, 2014)

Appointed to commence at 10.30am.

Followed by interment at Bowral Cemetery

 

LADY ROSE FUNERALS

36 Bowral Street, Bowral

FDA of NSW

Accreditation No: 12037-01

Ph: 4862 1833

Consultant: Joadi Webb J

 


 

 

 

 

 




Gary DUNNINGHAM

Gary DUNNINGHAM

Late of Warilla, NSW

New South Wales Police Force

 

Regd. #  22761

Constable 1st Class – Resigned

 

Stations:  Last Stationed at Warilla HWP

 

Service:  From  to  ?

 

Awards?

 

Born:  6 May 1959

Died:  21 March 2000

Age:  40

Cause:  Suicide – hanging – at home

 

 Funeral:  27 March 2000 – Unanderra Crematorium

 

Constable Gary Dunningham arresting Santa Claus
Constable Gary Dunningham arresting Santa Claus

Gary Dunningham & Greg Callander in Marine Drive, Wollongong, at a car show around 1998.
Gary Dunningham & Greg Callander in Marine Drive, Wollongong, at a car show around 1998.

 

Gary DUNNINGHAM memorial plaque
Gary DUNNINGHAM memorial plaque

 

A good bloke and always a “funny bastard”.

Old Gaz was bit of a ‘lad’ and joker, always wearing his thongs, shorts and ‘T’ shirts, he was the last person who I thought would have taken his own life.

May you forever Rest In Peace mate.

 

Cal




Patrick Leslie CARNEY

Patrick Leslie CARNEY

( late of the Gold Coast QLD & Wauchope NSW )

aka  Pat, Coons

 

New South Wales Police Force – Resigned

Completed Training at Redfern Police Academy with Class 151

 

Regd. # 17347

NSW Police Cadet # 3097

 

Rank:  NSW Police Cadet – commenced 3 February 1975

Probationary Constable – appointed  29 August 1976

Senior Constable – appointed  29 August 1985

 

Final Rank:  Senior Constable – Resigned

 

Stations:  Sutherland, Wollongong, Unanderra, P.S.U. – Wollongong

 

Service: 3 February 1975 to ? ? 1990 = 14+ years Service

 

Awards:  National Medal – granted 27 August 1992 ( Former SenCon )

 

Born:  Thursday  29 August 1957

Age:  46 yrs 2 mths 12 days

Died on:  Monday 10 November 2003

Cause:  Suicide – Hanging

 

Funeral date:   Monday 17 November 2003

Funeral location: Wauchope, NSW

 

Funeral location 2:  Gold Coast, Qld

Buried at:  Wauchope Cemetery, NSW

 

PAT is NOT mentioned on the Police Wall of Remembrance  *NEED MORE INFO

POLICE FOOTBALL. CONSTABLE PAT CARNEY, FROM WOLLONGONG POLICE, RECEIVED THE TOOTH L.A. MAN OF THE MATCH TROPHY IN THE DRESSING SHED OF LYSAGHTS FOOTBALL FIELD, FIGTREE. (PAT COMMITTED SUICIDE 10 NOVEMBER 2003. HE WAS A CIVILLIAN AT THAT TIME) 13 APRIL 1983
POLICE FOOTBALL.
CONSTABLE PAT CARNEY, FROM WOLLONGONG POLICE, RECEIVED THE TOOTH L.A. MAN OF THE MATCH TROPHY IN THE DRESSING SHED OF LYSAGHTS FOOTBALL FIELD, FIGTREE.

POLICE FOOTBALL AT ROSE BAY. CONSTABLE PAT CARNEY, WOLLONGONG POLICE. 20 APRIL 1983
POLICE FOOTBALL AT ROSE BAY.
CONSTABLE PAT CARNEY, WOLLONGONG POLICE.
20 APRIL 1983

POLICE FOOTBALL. CONSTABLE PAT CARNEY, FROM WOLLONGONG POLICE, RECEIVED THE TOOTH L.A. MAN OF THE MATCH TROPHY IN THE DRESSING SHED OF LYSAGHTS FOOTBALL FIELD, FIGTREE. SGT BRIAN OGDEN ON LEFT, CONSTABLE ALLAN 'HIPPO' HODGE (NO SHIRT IN BACK GROUND), CONSTABLE PAT CARNEY, CONSTABLE TONY CHAPLAIN (BACKGROUND ON RIGHT) (PAT COMMITTED SUICIDE 10 NOVEMBER 2003. HE WAS A CIVILLIAN AT THAT TIME) 13 APRIL 1983

POLICE FOOTBALL. CONSTABLE PAT CARNEY, FROM WOLLONGONG POLICE, RECEIVED THE TOOTH L.A. MAN OF THE MATCH TROPHY IN THE DRESSING SHED OF LYSAGHTS FOOTBALL FIELD, FIGTREE. MALE ON THE LIEFT IS UNKNOWN TO ME. (PAT COMMITTED SUICIDE 10 NOVEMBER 2003. HE WAS A CIVILLIAN AT THAT TIME) 13 APRIL 1983
POLICE FOOTBALL.
CONSTABLE PAT CARNEY, FROM WOLLONGONG POLICE, RECEIVED THE TOOTH L.A. MAN OF THE MATCH TROPHY IN THE DRESSING SHED OF LYSAGHTS FOOTBALL
13 APRIL 1983

 

1985 or 1986, Surfers Paradise, Qld
1985 or 1986, Surfers Paradise, Qld

 

Darren STARLING, Pat COONEY ( RIP ), Gary THATCHER ( RIP ) at the home of John HITCHCOCK.<br /> This would have been a Police Footy BBQ.<br />
Darren STARLING, Pat COONEY ( RIP ), Gary THATCHER ( RIP ) at the home of John HITCHCOCK.
This would have been a Police Footy BBQ.

Pat was born and bred in Wauchope, NSW, and joined the New South Wales Police Force via the Police Cadet system, aged 16, and commenced at the Redfern Police Academy on the 3 February 1975 and was assigned Cadet # 3097.

After the Police Academy, Pat was stationed at various locations including Sutherland.  He was later transferred to Wollongong General Duties and also performed duties at Unanderra as part of the District Foot Patrol.

Pat was a funny bastard and always up for a practical joke.  He was also a great footballer, playing in the NSW Police Football competition and playing for Wollongong District.

He served his final years back at Wollongong in the Prisoner Security Unit ( PSU ) until his resignation in 1990.

Two funeral Services were held for Pat.  One in his old home town of Waucope, NSW, where he was laid to rest and the second was held on the Gold Coast where Pat resided.

Pat was born on the 29 August 1957.


 

 




Gabrielle Patricia McDONALD

Gabrielle Patricia McDONALD – nee Eggleston

aka  Gabby

late of Maryland
Wife to Andrew McDonald # 22289

 

NSW Police Academy Class # 242C

“possibly” a Rejoinee

 

New South Wales Police Force

Regd. #  26685

 

Rank:  Commenced training at Goulburn Police Station on Sunday 30 July 1989 ( aged 19 years, 5 months, 5 days )

Probationary Constable – appointed 25 January 1990 ( aged 19 years, 11 months, 0 days )

Constable – appointed  ? ? ?

Detective – appointed  ? ? ? ( YES )

Constable 1st Class – appointed  ? ? ?

Senior Constable – appointed  ? ? ?

Sergeant 3rd Class – appointed  ? ? ?

 

Final Rank:  Detective Sergeant

 

Stations?, Inner City ( Sydney ), Newtown Detectives, Balmain ( 8 Division ), Newcastle, Lake Macquarie L.A.C.,  Northern Region Professional Standards

 

ServiceFrom 30 July 1989   to   3 July 2013 = 23 years, 11 months, 3 days Service

 

Awards:  No Find on Australian Honours

 

Born:  Wednesday  25 February 1970

Died on:  Wednesday  3 July 2013

Cause:  Depression – Suicide – hanging – ON DUTY

Previous attempt in 2012 inside Newcastle Police Stn

 

Age:  43 years, 4 months, 8 days

 

Funeral date:  Thursday  11 July 2013 @ 11am

Funeral location:  Our Lady of Victories Catholic Church, Sandgate Rd, Shortland

 

Buried at:  Sandgate Lawn Cemetery, 116 Maitland Rd, Sandgate, NSW

 

Grave Location:  Lawn Cemetery 1, Row R, Grave 54

GPS:  Lat:  -32.8703445   Long:  151.709213

Gabrielle "Gabby" McDonald
Gabrielle “Gabby” McDonald

GABBY is NOT mentioned on the Police Wall of Remembrance – Canberra 

* BUT SHOULD BE.  Last checked 2 Aug 2019  24 Jan 2024

 

GABBY IS mentioned on the Police Wall of Remembrance – NSW Domain


 

Grave location:  [codepeople-post-map]

Gabrielle Patricia McDonald NEE Eggleston. Inscription: In Loving Memory of Gabrielle Patricia McDONALD 25.2.1970 - 3.7.2013 Aged 43 years Cherished Wife of Andrew Devoted Mother of Jessica & Joshua Rest in Peace Babe

Andrew McDONALD Gabby EGGLESTON Gabby McDONALD Gabrielle Eggleston Gabrielle Patricia McDONALD
Grave of Gabrielle Patricia McDONALD – nee Gabby Eggleston

 

Class 242C- Goulburn - Attested 25 January 1990<b>  <strong>Class 242C  </strong> Goulburn - Attested 25 January 1990<B> Gabby EGGLESTON, Front row, 3rd from right<b>
Class 242C   Goulburn – Attested 25 January 1990            Gabby EGGLESTON, Front row, 3rd from right


Late of Maryland

Gabrielle passed away on 03/07/2013.

Her funeral is proposed to be held at 11am on Thursday 11th Instant at Our Lady of Victories Catholic Church, 262 Sandgate Road, SHORTLAND.

Dearly loved wife of ANDREW, loving mother of JESSICA and JOSH. Loved daughter and daughter-in-law of CARMEL and NORM (dec’d) EGGLESTON, FRAN and WARREN McDONALD.
Sister and sister-in-law of PETER and MAREE, MEL and JULIE, MARIA and MARK, ANDREW and AREEYA, ANGELA and MARK, SUE and STEVE, PATRICK and CAROLINE, NICOLE and NIGEL, GREG and loved aunty of their FAMILIES.

The Relatives and Friends of GABRIELLE are warmly invited to attend her Funeral to be held in Our Lady of Victories Catholic Church, Sandgate Rd, Shortland on THURSDAY 11/7/13 Funeral Liturgy commencing at 11am. An interment will follow at Sandgate Lawn Cemetery.

http://pettigrew.com.au/upcoming-funerals/2013/7/11/mcdonald-gabrielle-patricia-gabby.html


 

 

Gabrielle “Gabby” McDonald (1970 – 2013)

In Memoriam

Gabrielle Patricia MCDONALD

Passed away suddenly on 3/7/2013

What would we give to hear your voice and see your face again.

In our hearts is your memory and there you will always be.

Love from Andrew Jessica Joshua your family & friends

 

Published in The Newcastle Herald on July 3, 2015

– See more at: http://tributes.theherald.com.au/obituaries/theherald-au/obituary.aspx?n=gabrielle-mcdonald-gabby&pid=175205192#sthash.ti7JDssd.dpuf


Family of NSW policewoman who took her own life suing state for millions

Updated

The family of a policewoman who took her own life is suing the state of New South Wales for millions of dollars, for allegedly failing to protect her from harm.

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Key points:

  • Andrew McDonald has filed three negligence claims against the state
  • The claim alleges his wife did not receive adequate care after attending several traumatic incidents
  • It also alleges police failed to investigate a previous suicide attempt

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Video:    http://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-07-11/family-of-nsw-policewoman-who-took-her-own-life/7587948

Newcastle mother-of-two Sergeant Gabrielle McDonald developed post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and depression after witnessing a string of horrific incidents on the job.

She took her own life on July 3, 2013, the day after a police medical officer had declared her as fit for duty.

Her husband Andrew McDonald has filed three negligence claims against the state of NSW on behalf of himself and his two children, Jessica and Joshua.

His statement of claim, filed to the NSW District Court, said over the course of her career, McDonald attended numerous traumatic incidents, including domestic disputes, assaults, car accidents, suicides and murders.

She was particularly distressed by the drowning of a 17-year-old boy in 2009 and a double road fatality in 2010, but did not receive any counselling, debriefing or monitoring after the incidents, the statement of claim alleges.

In late 2010, she was promoted to Detective Sergeant in the Professional Standards Unit, Northern Region. But she struggled with the heavy workload, which included two stints relieving for her supervisor.

In 2012, McDonald attempted suicide in an office at the Newcastle police station, but police never investigated the incident.

“It’s investigation 101,” Mr McDonald, who was also a police officer, told the ABC.

“That’s what police do and it’s appalling that it was never done.”

Police medical officer found suicide attempt ‘was not genuine’

The day before McDonald took her own life, she was sent to see a police medical officer, Dr Naresh Verma.

Mr McDonald told the ABC, Dr Verma determined her previous suicide attempt was not genuine and he did not believe she had PTSD.

“All the staff thought well, OK, things must be on the improve, maybe Gabrielle is not sick at all, maybe she’s pulling the wool over our eyes and that was clearly wrong,” Mr McDonald said.

Dr Verma did not respond to repeated requests for comment.

The police force determined that McDonald should be transferred to another police station the next day.

According to the statement of claim, she was summoned to a meeting without warning and without a support person to be told she was being moved.

McDonald left the meeting in a distressed state, drove to a state forest and took her life.

Mr McDonald said he had one last telephone conversation with his wife.

“She said I can’t go on any more. I’m not getting better. I’m such a burden. They keep kicking me down at work. All I’m trying to do is keep my hours up. You know, this is hopeless,” he said.

“And I said: ‘You can’t do this’. I pleaded with her and begged her not to.

“She said I love you and the kids. We talked about all the things we’d done together, but nothing I said would make sense to her, she was just that determined to do it”.

McDonald ‘did not receive proper monitoring’

Mr McDonald’s lawyers allege that the police service ought to have known the meeting would cause her distress and that she was at risk of self harm.

They allege the NSW police force was negligent because it failed to maintain a safe system of work to avoid injury to McDonald.

It had also allegedly failed to provide her with adequate training to perform her duties and to take precautions for her safety, “putting her in a position of peril”.

The service is also accused of failing to provide adequate training on how to recognise the symptoms of psychiatric injury.

“The deceased did not receive any or proper monitoring of her condition while she continued to work in a stressful environment,” the claim states.

The claim also alleges the police force had failed to devise a system for the flagging of police officers involved in numerous distressing or traumatic incidents.

As a result of its negligence, McDonald had suffered a major depressive disorder, chronic PTSD, alcohol abuse and death by suicide, it is alleged.

Mr McDonald said he now suffered from an adjustment disorder with depression and anxiety.

He was on track to become a superintendent, before he was medically retired.

He is claiming about $900,000 in future lost earnings, in addition to damages and interest. He is also seeking damages on behalf of his two children.

Damages are limited to $750,000 in the NSW District Court, but it does have the discretion to lift the cap.

In a statement to the ABC, the NSW police force said it could not comment specifically on the tragic circumstances which led to the death of a serving officer.

“NSW police continues to improve its practices and procedures, having made significant advances over many years to minimise the psychological impact of policing duties on our officers, who frequently undertake stressful and difficult work,” the statement said.

“As a major priority, NSW police encourages the reporting of these impacts and offers a range of services to support, guide and educate our staff.

“These support services are comprehensive and effective.

“It is well understood that every officer’s circumstances are unique and most often extremely complex with regard to the impacts of psychological injury.”

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-07-11/family-of-nsw-policewoman-who-took-her-own-life-suing-state/7576870


 

Scott Perrin   18 May 2020
Gabby was my partner Newtown D’s. She was rock solid, loyal and supportive. She spoke her mind and was honest in opinion and views.
Gabby was from the Eggleston family of the Hunter & loved horses and racing. She taught riding to kids with patience & care. Gabby also helped place horses with the Mounted Section NSW Police.
Along with Gabby & Deb Hayton, we had a tough feminine perspective to our office in the 90’s.
Sad to know when she was in need, Gabby felt alone.
Gabby was loved by many and will be missed by all!